1 Peter 3: 15 “Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your
life. And if someone asks about your
hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it.”
2 Timothy 4 “Preach the word of God. Be prepared, whether the time is favorable or
not. Patiently correct, rebuke, and
encourage your people with good teaching.”
I missed an opportunity to preach the Good News at my father’s
70th birthday party with all our friends and family gathered
together to celebrate my dad. What a wonderful
time we had. And I was holding the mic
and recounted an early childhood memory but I had also planned to speak about a
time when my dad and I were on the phone and having a deep conversation about
life and some loved ones who had passed away. It was a difficult time and it
seemed we had lost too many friends and family members one right after the other. I grew up in the church, thanks to my mom’s
dedication to get my brother and I there, whether we wanted to go or not. My dad only rarely, and I mean very rarely,
would attend. It had to be some grand event,
or funeral to get him to step foot in the church. So, growing up, through the
years, we would ask him why he didn’t attend church. As I got older, and
understood the Gospel of Jesus Christ, I had began to ask with greater
understanding of the benefit of salvation, ‘Dad, why don’t you go to
church? Are you saved? Do you believe in God? I can’t remember his answers throughout the
years, but there was always some ambiguity in his responses that never left me
assured that I would see my dad in heaven.
Well, on this particular day, as we conversed on the phone, discussing
freely the cares and worries on our hearts, I asked him again. “Dad, are you saved?” Again, his answer seemed ambiguous. With a tender voice I asked, “Do you believe
in Jesus?” “Yes,” he replied. Yet there
was still a question mark to his tone. “Would
you be okay if I prayed with you the believers prayer?” “YES.” And with a willing and open heart, my dad and
I prayed together for his salvation. I can’t
recall the actual words I said. I can
only remember the feeling I had when we were done. I didn’t wonder anymore if my dad was going
to be alright, or about his relationship with Christ. I knew that God had him in His hands. And that all those years of going to church
and developing my relationship with God had a hand in ensuring that the man I
loved so dearly, and so wonderfully had finally become part of my eternal family,
forever.
Over the years, I have seen such a heart change in my
dad. He still cusses like a sailor, and
is passionate about sports and his home.
He still has his strong and vibrant personality and fortitude. However, he is so much more than that. He is gentle and understanding, full of patience
and kindness. He is a dedicated husband and
generous giver. He is quite
incredible. I am flattering now, but
also speaking the truth. I didn’t get a
chance to say all of this before our friends and family. I recoil at the missed opportunity to speak
so boldly as to what God can do when He gets his hands on an individual – no matter
how stubborn that person may be. It’s uncomfortable
to talk like this about my dad, who is alive and well?! It feels like I’m writing
a eulogy, which I’m not – Lord, grant him many more years, too numerous to count,
Amen. I’m writing about the scripture that
says to be ready and be prepared, at any time, to share the Good News of the Gospel. I wasn’t ready. I felt like I was on the mic too long, I didn’t
want to take too much time at the party. But scripture says, “whether the time is favorable
or not,” which means even if you think, “now is not a good time,” or, “I’m at work,
it isn’t appropriate to talk about faith at work,” or, “I’m standing in line at
the grocery store, this clerk doesn’t want to hear about Jesus,” or, “it would
be so uncomfortable for me to bring up Jesus right now.” Don’t make the same mistake I did and think
that you’ve had the floor too long, or that the timing is not right. It’s not about us. It’s not about our comfort or understanding
of the situation. Be ready. I know that I will get many more opportunities
to share the Gospel. I’ve already prayed
about it. Oops God, I missed that one,
throw me another one! He will. But maybe there was someone there that day
that needed to hear my story and missed out because I didn’t tell it.
Ouch. So, I’m encouraging you to act
when the Holy Spirit pulls on your heart strings to say something or do
something that may seem uncomfortable or out of your character norm. Do it.
Say it. Take the floor.
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